Friday, January 24, 2014

Warning Label Needed

Monday morning, I woke up STILL tired.

Tuesday, I woke up STILL tired.

Wednesday, I woke up STILL tired with an "explode-my-head" headache.

Thursday, I woke up (after 10 hours of sleep) STILL tired with an "explode-my-head" headache AND puffy eyes. 

So I went to the doctor and got some medicine for yet another sinus infection.  This is #5 or 6 in a year's time. At least this time the doctor referred me to an ENT specialist.  I see the specialist in February. 

Today, I woke up (after 10 hours of sleep) STILL tired, but minus the headache and puffy eyes.  But feeling like a freight train plowed through me.  

So I was stuck with the choice: to go to work or not to go... that was the question.  I chose to NOT go.

As I laid in bed considering my options, I found myself thinking how unfair it is that adulthood doesn't come with a warning label.

When I was in middle school and high school, all I wanted was to grow up and be an adult.  Then I could do whatever I wanted, whenever I wanted, wherever I wanted. 

But what I didn't realize is that adulthood comes with a LOT of responsibilities.  You have to make your own decisions and take responsibility for whatever results those decisions may return. I have to make the decision on when I should and should not call in sick.  I have to make the decision when or if to go to the doctor.  I have to make the decision on where I want to live and how I want to live and with whom I want to spend my time. I have to choose whether to get an apartment on my own or buy a car.  I have to chose how, when, where, and on what I spend my finances. So many choices!

 Sure, there are people around that are more than happy to give their opinion on my choices, to offer their guidance and advice, but only ONE person is held accountable for my decisions.  

Me.

Only Me.

Don't get me wrong, I like being an adult most of the time.  It's part of life.  It's part of the growing and learning thing called life.  All I'm saying is that they should tell you all of this stuff in middle school;  that while being an adult is great, take time to appreciate the days when the only decisions you have to make are which book to read for your book report and what kind of jelly you want on your PB&J.

Sunday, January 12, 2014

NOT New Year's Resolutions

I've always liked the concept of New Year's Resolutions.  There's something great about choosing to make life changes.  However, what I HATE about New Year's Resolutions is that hardly anyone keeps their resolutions.  Usually this is because the resolutions are things that deep down they know they'll never actually be able to keep.

So I don't make resolutions.  Who wants to set themselves up for failure?!  Not me.  That's for sure.

So this year, I made a list of goals. 6 things I want to change in my life during 2014.  2 Spiritual, 2 Physical, & 2 Social/Emotional.  I made sure to keep them COMPLETELY attainable. I've chosen to share these with you for several reasons:

1- the hopes that you will pray for me as I strive to meet these goals this year
2- to have people keeping me accountable
3- inspire YOU to set some goals of your own

My 2014 Goals are these:

Spiritual:
-Read through the entire New Testament (which I've never done as a personal goal)
-Finish Memorizing Romans 6 (I've tired to memorize it twice with one month goals, but never have)

Physical:
-exercise 3 times a week
-lose one pants size

Social/Emotional:
-Use my words to uplift others
-Live peaceably with others

I like that I've given myself an entire year to make these changes.  And I LOVE that they're all 100% attainable! It excites me to think that a year from now, I should be able to look back and say "Yeah!  I DID that!"

Tuesday, January 7, 2014

Right Now I'm...

Listening: My "2014 Focus" CD, made by yours truly.  It features songs that will inspire me to achieve my goals for the year, including songs such as Steven Curtis Chapman's "Love Take Me Over" and Hawk Nelson's "Words."


Watching: Revenge is back on Sunday Nights, so I'll be staying up-to-date on that for sure! And the Fosters returns on Monday, so I've been re-watching the 10 episodes from this summer in preparation!

Reading: "Summer Promise" by Robin Jones Gunn.  I love feeling like a teen again!

Eating: Oatmeal.  The wrong kind.  Wal-Mart was out of the cinnamon roll flavored instant stuff I usually get, so I had to get the "weight losers anonymous" maple brown sugar kind instead. Sad.

Wishing: For Summer.  Or at least spring.  Or at least temperatures above 30... or 40... without wind...

Needing:  Absolutely Nothing. :)

Rejoicing: That I got to see my dear Caleb yesterday, and get one of his awesome hugs!  Love that guy!  Oh, and I'm rejoicing that he and my Helen made it safely back to Ohio (after a long, weather-laden excursion).

Indulging: Do the three doughnuts I had on Saturday count?  Because I definitely had three. I'm a glutton for glazed doughnuts.

Loathing: The frozen tundra wasteland known as my back yard.  I SO hate winter.  I'd rather have absolutely any other season.

Saying: Well, Helen watched three whole seasons of Gilmore Girls while she was home over break, so we've had lots of "Oy! With the poodles already!"s floating around!  It's SO great!

Meditating: I mentioned Steven Curtis Chapman's song "Love Take Me Over" earlier as well as Hawk Nelson's "Words."  Both songs have been on my mind this week, and I'm thankful that both songs direct me right back to God.  There is a phrase in "Words" that says "I don't wanna say a word unless it points the world back to you."  One of my 2014 goals is to use my words more wisely, so this phrase has been on constant replay in my mind. Another goal for 2014 is to finally finish memorizing Romans 6, so that has been on my mind also!

Picturing:  

I can't wait for warm weather to return!

Wednesday, January 1, 2014

2013 in Retrospect

This will be my fourth year doing an "...in Retrospect," and I must say, I quite enjoy my year-end reviews.  It's a great time to look back on all that happened over the last year, and to see the ways God has provided and taught.

Over the course of this year, I've lived in two different places in two different zip codes. I've had two different jobs in four different towns.  I'm part of two different (both amazing) church families. 

Is it sad that it excites me that all of these things only come in TWOS?!  For all the changes I've gone through this year, it really has been a year of stability for me.  

I started off the year living in Ankeny, working at a daycare.  I loved working with the kids, but I knew from the beginning it was a transition job, and I was restless for all of January and February.  Helen began her time at Cedarville in January, and April moved from Ankeny back to Farmington in December.  I was lonely and restless with no ideas in sight.

In February, I took a road trip with the Yellow House family out to Ohio to surprise my sister and to see Caleb in Cedarville's production of "Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dream Coat."  It was SO MUCH FUN to surprise Helen and to see the play and to just be together. And even for all the fun times travelling with the Petersons, who by the way aren't the "do it as fast as we can" types when it comes to travelling.  HA!

Then, at the end of February, a friend of mine told me of a job hiring close to my parents' home in Southeast Iowa, at the bank I've frequented since my childhood.  I jumped at the opportunity, and long story short, I was hired!  I moved home at the end of March and began my new job on March 25.  I was nervous about taking this job because I was so tired of job hopping!  I really REALLY wanted this to be the job for me... for longer than a year.  And (spoiler alert) it has been probably the BEST job I've ever had!  It had its ups and downs (see prior posts from 2013), but so far I can say that I LOVE my job.  For real this time.  And for the long haul, too, I believe!

When I came home for my interview in early March, we celebrated my dad's 50th birthday with the family.  We had cake and food and family-togetherness.  I'm so thankful for our family patriarch.  He is such a blessing to our family in his leadership, in his example, and in his outlook on life.

In April, we celebrated Easter with the family, and my older sister brought her boyfriend for a first-meet with the family.  Oh boy.... if only Jason had known what he was in for. 

Summer quickly came, and we spent even more time together.  Daniel came home from his year in Peru, and Laura came home from her first semester at Cedarville.  We were finally all together again!  We spent the summer doing things like visiting Nauvoo, spending the 4th of July at Lacey Lake, and going on Vacation. Once again, we vacationed in Nebraska/Colorado.  I spent two days of solitude in Denver with my aunt and uncle, then when the family joined me, we visited the zoo and Uncle Waldo & Aunt Marlene. OH!  And Lindsey and Jason got engaged in August, too! 

Summer also included my 5-year high school reunion. We celebrated in July by getting together for an evening.  Most of my friends from high school were there, and it was so much fun to see everyone again!  It was so great to catch up with everyone and to see where we all ended up and what we're all doing.

Autumn arrived with bursts of color, and Helen went back to Ohio. I left Donnellson behind and started full-time in Mt. Pleasant, which wasn't good until I let go of what I wanted and said YES to God's leading.  In October, Leah and I went out to Ohio to surprise Helen for her 21st Birthday!  We had SO MUCH FUN!  And the surprise was ours when we got to spend time with Aunt Linda, whom we hadn't seen in way too long!  We had such a great weekend together.  Even the drive out and back was fun!

November came, and we began preparing for Thanksgiving.  Once again, I did my "Thankful Thoughts" blogs, and for the first time in the three years I've been doing it, I actually posted every single day on that date!  I was so proud of myself!  We celebrated Thanksgiving a little differently this year, as most of the family had to work on Thanksgiving.  Jason brought the girls over and spent the day with us.  We put up our Christmas tree and hung out.  Then on Saturday, we celebrated with our usual houseful of family and togetherness.

December arrived with a schedule full of activity.  I celebrated my 24th birthday with mom in Des Moines, where we shopped and ate and saw "The Polar Express" in the imax.  The following weekend, we celebrated the wedding of Lindsey to Jason, and the making of a new family!  We had our Christmas cantata at church that weekend, too. Helen and I ended the year by taking a trip to see our Yellow House family last weekend, and spending time with our family and friends in Des Moines.  

God has been so faithful this year in his blessing of family.  As I re-read this post, I realize that it's almost entirely about spending time with my family, and I am so blessed!  I also see God's faithfulness in the provision of a job I love, and the lessons He has taught me through this process of finding my place at the bank.  2013 has been a great year, and I'm so looking forward to 2014 as another opportunity to grow!



Sunday, December 15, 2013

Wedding Wonderland

On Friday morning, the 13th of December, my sister Lindsey got married, and a new family was established. We enjoyed a ceremony at 8am, and a brunch reception after.  Not many words are needed, but I thought I'd share some photos of the festivities for your enjoyment.  As always, if you receive this via e-mail, you'll have to actually visit my blog to see the photos.  Enjoy!